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Kesha, a busy mom of three girls (with hopes of someday adding a boy to the mix), uses withdrawal with her man. Once she finishes her masters degree, they’ll stop pulling out, but for now, “he just does it.” (Except when—uh-oh—he just doesn’t.)

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It's kinda like clockwork—he just knows to do it.
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A typical day for me is, I’m starting off in the morning since I am a mom, getting my girls off to school, getting myself ready for work, shooting out. I’ll probably have millions of clients that I’m seeing all day long about nonprofit things and starting up businesses and things like that. So I’m very busy, very busy. I have a 10-year-old, a 13-year-old, and a 2-year-old, but I’m looking to have me a little boy one day, so in the next five years I do want to hopefully have me a little boy. I’ll know 100 percent that I’m ready to have a baby once I complete my master’s degree, and we’ll stop with pull out and we’ll just pursue us having a baby. We don’t have any trust issues regarding us pulling out at all. There’s – it’s just – he just does it and knows to do it, and it’s kind of like clockwork, he’ll just do it. But there has been times when he hasn’t and I’m like, “What is he doing?!” But other than that .... (Laughs) My name’s Kesha. I’m 32 years old, and I’m currently using the pull-out method.